Burning Bridges

A couple of my friends had a spat today. Hurtful words were flung back and forth. Words that were meant to draw blood.

I realized that I get away with saying some things that would hurt if it came from someone else and I wondered about it. Why would I get away with that? Is it a special talent that I have? A talent that will not be given any accolade? Maybe I have a special way with words? Or maybe because it is expected of me?

I asked two friends why and they couldn't really explain why something doesn't hurt if it came from me but would burn bridges if it came from someone else. I had to stuff words into their mouth myself! I asked if they think maybe it's because even if I say something nasty I don't mean to insult and that they know I hold them dear to my heart and my friendship is sincere? Geez... did I have to be so self-admiring? Anyway, they agreed in a tentative way that told me I hit the nail smack on the head. Ah yes... I am gifted. I bet I can start my own religion.

I think if your friendship is sincere then there are no conditions attached to it. No terms of service or tenure. It is something that is offered from your heart and soul. It is not earned but given. It accepts the other exactly as the other was, is, would be and could be. Is that noble or what???

Quick, ring the bells and invite people to this congregation of love! We'll call it... hmmm.. it has to be called something that inspires selflessness...

I'll call it the Love Shack.